Abstract
The paper develops a conception of marital love as a complex
recognitive relation, which I articulate by juxtaposing
it against other recognitive relations that figure in Hegel's
theory of modern civil society (i.e., respect and esteem).
Drawing on Hegel's early writings, I argue that, if love is to
provide its unique sort of recognition, it must obtain
between “living beings who are equal in power”—a peculiar
form of equality that I name (drawing on Stanley Cavell's
work) “dynamic equality.” I conclude that it is by Hegel's
own lights that we should reject his notorious conception
of the sexual difference. However, I also offer reasons
why, from Hegel's early 19th century perspective, he could
consider the following two conditions as compatible: (1)
equality within marriage and (2) sexual hierarchy outside
marriage, namely, in civil society.